1. M.Makael Newby

Relationship Coach, Author, Speaker, Sexuality Consultant


 
 

26 July 2010 – Portland, OR – Club Sesso, 824 SW 1st Ave. – 7-8:30 PM

The Law of Multiples: Creating Healthy Open Relationships

25 July 2010 Portland, OR CoHo Theatre Talk-Back after a performance of Live Girls

Co-led with Eleanor O’Brien of Dance Naked Productions

11 July 2010 – Portland, OR – Club Sesso, 824 SW 1st Ave.

Communication Skills for Extraordinary Relationships – delivered to roughly 30 attendees with an approval rating of 9.3/10!

20 June 2010 – Portland, OR – Club Sesso, 824 SW 1st Ave.

The Law of Multiples: Creating Healthy Open Relationships – delivered successfully to almost 40 attendees who jumped into the discussions and truly supported each other. Click here if you attended and didn’t get a handout.

19 May 2010 – San Francisco, CA – Good Vibrations, 630 Valencia Street

The Law of Multiples: Non-Monogamy for Novices live presentation & discussion, and book signing. Thanks to all who attended!

26 February 2010 – Washington, DC – Kink Academy Filming

I’m honored by my selection as a Kink Academy Instructor. While in DC for a sexuality conference, I filmed my non-monogamy and fellatio classes for viewing through the Kink Academy website.

16 February 2010 – Portland, OR – Sex Talk on KPSU Radio

This show was the beginning of my short stint as a co-host on Sex Talk’s new time slot. The show was cancelled for business reasons, and may yet be revived through an alternate provider. Podcasts are posted on my podcast page.

20 December 2009 – Portland, OR – Sex Talk on KPSU Radio

I joined the Sex Talk crew for conversations about non-monogamy, infidelity, jealousy, and excerpts from My Erotic Adventure. My fiance joined my guest appearance to discuss our not-so-unique, non-monogamous relationship. Visit www.kpsu.org/listen to download or stream content, or my podcast page to play content.

17 October 2009 – Ultimate Fellatio - Private Class in Littleton, CO

24-26 September 2009 – Denver, CO - The Sex Show, Denver Convention Center


Hot Women Read Hot Erotica (Panel reading & discussion)

Sexuality conferences, sex toy stores, even entertainment-media references to kink abound, and yet the open discussion of sex remains a public, and too often private, taboo.  One way that we breach this wall of forbidden information is through reading Erotica.  Come hear live readings from new and established authors and engage in a conversation about what’s hot, what’s not, and the inherent challenges and thrills in writing and reading about sex.


How to Give (or Teach) Fellatio or Ultimate Fellatio (Testimonial below)


The Law of Multiples: Creating Healthy Open Relationships also presented as The Law of Multiples: Non-Monogamy for the Novice (Testimonial below)



Introduction to my Fellatio workshop at the Denver Sex Show in late September 2009. There was a lot of competing (noisy)programming, but the 75 attendees thoroughly enjoyed themselves anyway!

Recent Appearances

Ultimate Fellatio – 1 1/2 to 2 hour presentation for large groups

                         – 2 to 3 hour workshop available to private groups (includes additional discussion of how and where we learn (or don’t) about sexual    

                            techniques, the virgin/whore complex, and what’s possible when we own our desire.)

What do you do when your partner lacks BJ skills? Where do you go for training when you wish to improve your own?  Here! As a dance instructor, Makael has a particular skill for breaking physical action into components and teaching them with enthusiasm… and BJ’s are one of her favorite things.  Come learn about hand skills, tongue tricks, deep throating, sloppy BJ’s, choking and forced gagging. Live demo included.


Non-Monogamy for the Novice/Creating Healthy Open Relationships – 1 to 1 1/2 hour workshop & discussion available for conferences or private

                            groups.

One + one = done.  This is the openly accepted American ideal for a committed partnership.  Nonetheless, many people find deep satisfaction in swinging and polyamory – styles of loving that include three or more partners.  In this session we’ll discuss the differences between emotional and physical non-monogamy, non-monogamy vs. cheating, and look at the benefits gained and the pitfalls risked when you consider adding multiple partners to a loving relationship.


Communication Skills for Extraordinary Relationships - 1 1/2 to 2 hour presentation

Attraction and love are wonderful things. Communication, however, is what makes relationships possible. What we hear and how we respond can make or break our success. In this interactive workshop we'll discuss several tools for listening, interpreting, and speaking that will improve your ability to communicate, reducing stress and frustration in all areas of your life.


The Kinky Toy Bag Tour – 1 to 1 1/2 hour hands-on presentation for private groups

Curious about the implements of kink? Ever wondered about the difference between a whip and a flogger? Makael will take you on a lightly-experiential, hands-on tour of her kinky toy bag and discuss some of the distinctions of the BDSM lifestyle. Thud vs. sting, Top/bottom, Dominant/submissive, Sadist/masochist, sensual vs. painful sensation – these are some of the topics we’ll discuss as we examine nipple clamps, sharp, pointy things, rope and other restraints, and much more. She’ll also introduce you to one of the most popular “gateway” toys: Vampire Gloves. Bring your curiosity and find out what you just might enjoy!


Erotic Dancing: One for One - 1 to 1 1/2 hour workshop available for conferences or to private groups

Interested in giving your other half a unique experience, or adding a new trick to your work-out?  With over 6 years experience as a dance and aerobics instructor, Makael has a skill for breaking movement into teachable elements, and has been praised by her student for her enthusiasm and patience.  She’s also taken erotic dancing classes with various instructors, and won an amateur pole-dancing contest in 2007. In this class we’ll discuss emotional, mental and logistic elements, and practice some basic moves to unleash and express your inner sensuality and make dancing for your lover an experience that you’ll both enjoy.  Dress comfortably… this is a hands-on, body-in-motion lesson!


These workshops are available by arrangement.  Other may be designed to meet your specific needs.  Please contact info@myeroticadventure.com to request additional information.

Current Offerings

“Being a seasoned Sex Coach, and a long-time pleasure promoter, I thought I knew it all.  And then came Makael with her presentation on Fellatio.  I took notes – lots of them.  Makael’s knowledge is right up there with her enthusiasm.  Given the opportunity, I’d go see the same presentation again, or anything else that Makael has to offer.”


-  Pam Babbitt, Sex Coach - PamBabbitt.com, Editor - SexCoaching.com

“Makael's clear and inviting discussion neutralized the emotional charge around non-monogamy, but it was the stories of her own experiences shared with humor and irony that opened the topic in a vulnerable and human way.  She demonstrates the deep honesty and open communication required to navigate successfully through multiple partner relationships, and her easy acceptance of all our human differences invites each of us to explore fully.  Makael's courage and integrity invite us to embrace ourselves and our deepest longings.”


- Barbara Snow, Shantrika and facilitator for The Wild Ride: Becoming Your Full Self

“My husband is thankful that I took your Fellatio class. He particularly loves the gagging, which was a pleasant surprise for us both. The only drawback is that he thinks I should practice every day!”


- Susan

Non-Monogamy: Honoring the Agreement

Non-Monogamy: New Relationship Energy

Non-Monogamy: Jealousy

“Makael's class opened my mind to new possibilities, showed me some new techniques, and communicated very clearly that any sexual choice is okay, as long as it's YOURS. Makael's expertise and authenticity are a winning recipe to create a safe space and a fun, enlightening class.


  1. -Robin Hoffman, The World's #1 Author Alchemist


“Your workshop was amazing and fun! I actually felt really positive about myself and sexuality after my partner and I attended your workshop. The [discussion about] jealousy (fear of loss) really made me aware of my childhood and how it affected my relationship with my partner for the last 15 years.


- Emily

11 August 2010 – Portland, OR – local AASECT meeting

I’m honored to be presenting The Law of Multiples: Creating Healthy Open Relationships to the local members of the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists.


23 August 2010 – Portland, OR – Club Sesso, 824 SW 1st Ave. – 7-8:30 PM

Communication Skills: Groud Discussion and Round Table


Club Sesso is proud to launch "Sesso Ed", our educational series to help build a more open, sex-positive community. Education and communication are the cornerstones to any healthy, fulfilling relationship. Accordingly, Club Sesso is partnering with professional educators, coaches, counselors, and consultants to deliver a series of quality, diverse, engaging workshops and discussions for both members and guests.


M. Makael Newby is heading up this initiative and helping open-minded, inquiring individuals and couples create fulfilling, lasting and juicy relationships in all areas of their lives, particularly their sex lives.


The workshop will be open to the public free of charge.

Upcoming Appearances

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